JUST MAKE A DECISION AND FOLLOW THROUGH.
HAVE MAKE A DECISION?
Decide what you
want. This doesn’t
even need to be something huge. It could be something as simple as you
want to get deep into your most exciting hobby. The key element here is
the response of making a
simple decision. Reacting to what life provides
is not the solution! The solution is making a conscious decision as to the life
you want to live. Figure out what is important to you and then make the
decision, saying, this is what you want to do. All that matters is that it is
something you have decided that you want to do, experience or explore, haven
checked the sacrifice you must pay to get there and the benefit you will gain
at last.
Hint: Make a list of the benefits you'll receive when you achieve
your goal. This will be important when you get to that “slump” phase when the
decision loses the thrill of its newness. At this point haven known your
benefits will energize you to not give up when hurdles storms.
WILL YOU BE COMMITTED?
Have you made your decision? Yes. The
next thing to following through your decision. For instance, making a decision to
save $50 every week to help you achieve your target, then you need to be
committed to that making sure that nothing stops you from doing. In this case
there are things you must deny yourself to meet up your target. Buying everything
you see in the store and in the mal will get you nowhere. But until you discipline
yourself and cut down your expenses. Another example is making a decision
towards using a particular product. There is no way you can actualize your goal
of using that product except you are committed to the actual use of it, than running
from one product to another. If you commit to your decision you will by
yourself discover so many qualities you possessed but have not even started
using them. It requires discipline, work, practice and doing it over and over
again to develop the skills and mastery of what your are learning.
CAN IT WORK WITHOUT ACTION?
Action they say, speaks louder than
word. Dreaming will never get you there. So my dear, you have made a decision and committed yourself to it. Now
you need to take Action. Even if it’s little move, you will need to make that
first move and keep making those moves. Never thinking of reaching your goals if you don’t take Action.
Sitting on the couch and thinking you need to lose weight will not make you
lose weight no matter what product you buy. Earning your Salary every month and
spending it all, will never give you financial freedom, until you learn to save
and plan to grow with your savings. The same goes for confidence, wishing you
had more confidence and not doing anything about it, will not develop more
confidence. Dreaming will not get you there, just like I said earlier. Hope
will not get you there. Only action will get you there. Even if it’s just a
tiny step every day you will make it. Each action you take adds up to a huge
jump in the right direction. Successful people always take action and they
always keep their head up.
The only thing that will prevent you
from reaching your goals and height is the fear of making a mistake or not
knowing if it’s the “right decision”. One thing that can help you in getting closer
to your desired height even in the midst of failure, is seeing failure as a
stepping stone to success. If not, no way!
You will never achieve your deepest desires.
If you only react to whatever life brings you. Stop reacting to what life
brings you!! Dear, Successful people take action first. They already made the
decision of what they want, they know what they need to do and they do it. What
are you waiting for? Always move forward. Ask yourself, “What action can I take
today?” and then do it.
DISTRACTION CAN STOP
YOU.
Do not allow anything distract you. A
friend and a partner in business became a problem to me and to me and to the
manager of the firm we are managing, simply because he lost focus and and was
being feed with some information and options, that makes made hold meeting almost
every day for resolving of monetary issue. All because he needed a quick fix
scheme system that could make him have his credit card at hand always. He never
knew that the more we get distracted the longer it will take us to achieve our
goal. Be careful, anything can distract you, it could be from the Television
broadcast, friends, email message or road side posters. The question is have
you made a decision for reaching your goal? Then don’t let yourself be
distracted from your reaching your goal. Prostrate it in the front of your mind
and always gear towards it.
Remember all these step are just the
road to the discovery of your happiness. But while on this journey of
discovery, it may seem as if you are not making any progress, but if you
patiently continue, sooner you’ll be amazed at how great you have achieved just
by moving forward little by little every day. You must keep moving forward even when in the midst of
distraction when things seem to be slow in movement. As Thomas Edison said,“many of life’s failure are people who did not
realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
If you
are sure, you want to change your life, you’re worth the effort it’d going to
take. What does this mean? If you must have a change of life, you must work for
it. Gently move towards your goal and you will make it. If you take a close
look at anyone who actualized their goal, it has never been an overnight
success. It was a matter of taking one step oe at a time. Once you grab it, you
save it, you‘re not depending on someone or something else, never give up on
yourself. You can make it. Encourage yourself even in the midst of the
challenges that may pop up on the road to your success.
Be confident in yourself, developing self
confidence you’ll learn so much about your own self on the way to your aiming
destination. Then you will have discovered why you have the negative thoughts
at your starting point. Life is all about self discovery and it can be an
amazing journey. Take it easy with life and you will get there successfully like
a magic. Be excited in this journey. You will get there.
Finally,
I encourage you to try this simple steps you will be amazed at what result your
life will produce.
By Pastor Wisdom Emmanuel.
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